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The Exercise in Week Two of “The Master Key System” Explained

The exercise for Week Two of The Master Key System is the one exercise for which I receive the most emails. It is also the one that frustrates the most people — and, unfortunately, causes many people to give up.

I am happy to tell you that this exercise is much easier than you think it is.

Also, the goal of the exercise is quite different than what you probably think it is.

It is my hope that this explanation will assuage any frustrations that you’ve had and set you on the right track to mastering this exercise and getting the full benefits from it.

The Exercise

30. Last week I gave you an exercise for the purpose of securing control of the physical body. If you have accomplished this you are ready to advance. This time you will begin to control your thought. Always take the same room, the same chair, and the same position, if possible. In some cases it is not convenient to take the same room. In this case simply make the best use of such conditions as may be available. Now be perfectly still as before, but inhibit all thought. This will give you control over all thoughts of care, worry, and fear, and will enable you to entertain only the kind of thoughts you desire. Continue this exercise until you gain complete mastery.

31. You will not be able to do this for more than a few moments at a time, but the exercise is valuable because it will be a very practical demonstration of the great number of thoughts which are constantly trying to gain access to your mental world.

32. Next week you will receive instructions for an exercise which may be a little more interesting, but it is necessary that you master this one first.

The Exercise Explained

Before I explain this exercise, I want you to read what the exercise is again.

Now, here’s what most people get wrong: Most people believe that the goal of this exercise is to “inhibit all thought.” They think that they have to become some sort of super-yogi Zen master and have no thoughts for minutes, hours, days, weeks.

It’s not. Inhibiting your thoughts is not the goal of the exercise for Week Two.

The goal for this exercise is stated by Mr. Haanel in point number 31:

You will not be able to do this for more than a few moments at a time, but the exercise is valuable because it will be a very practical demonstration of the great number of thoughts which are constantly trying to gain access to your mental world.

Most people go into this exercise trying to do their best to inhibit their thoughts for minutes. When they can barely do a couple of seconds, they get very frustrated.

In that same point, though, Haanel explicitly states that you “will not be able to do this [inhibit thoughts] for more than a few moments at a time.”

Moments. Not seconds. Not minutes. Moments.

One of the definitions of “moment” is “A brief, indefinite interval of time.” It’s a very short amount of time. Very short. It’s, as the perhaps clichéd phrase goes, fleeting. Moments are here and then gone.

Does that make sense? Does that now make the exercise doable? Easier?

It should.

Haanel in that same point tells us what the real goal of this exercise is: “[I]t will be a very practical demonstration of the great number of thoughts which are constantly trying to gain access to your mental world.”

This exercise is made to showcase just how much mental chatter is constantly bombarding us. That’s it.

Concurrent with that, it will also allow us to develop ways to stop those thoughts as they occur. When you do this exercise, you will inhibit your thoughts. You will only be able to do that for a moment or two before a thought creeps into your consciousness. “Hey! I think I got it … Doh!” Then you stop that thought and return to inhibiting your thoughts again. That will once again last for a couple of moments. And then … It goes on and on.

So, your aim with this exercise is not to be Mr. or Ms. Zen Master. You don’t have to worry about inhibiting your thoughts for minutes. Heck, you don’t even have to quell your thoughts for seconds!

The chief aim of the exercise for Week Two is to just notice how many thoughts are constantly happening in your head and then to stop them at will.

Doesn’t that make more sense? I hope it does. Now, go and do this exercise properly. You should feel no frustration at all and you should be able to master it with ease.

The Benefits of This Exercise

The tangible benefits of this exercise are manifold.  The chief one is this:

Have you ever set yourself to do a task and then, all of a sudden, you start hearing that “little voice” that says things like “Isn’t it time for lunch?” or “How about that other thing you have to do?” or even “It looks like a nice day outside.”

Those are those thoughts that come to us — unbidden and unwanted.

As you master this exercise, you’ll be able to notice those thoughts quickly and then cast them out just as quickly, thereby allowing you to focus solely on your task.

Here’s another benefit: Do you ever denigrate yourself with negative self-talk? Of course you do. We all do. As you perfect this exercise, you will be able to notice yourself doing that quicker and then stopping it quicker. You will find yourself to be a happier person.

This is a form of mental mastery that is much more important than inhibiting thoughts.

Tips for the Best Practice of Week Two’s Exercise

There are no specific tips for mastering the exercise from Week Two other than what is written here. Go to your place. Take your seat. Keep your body still. Inhibit your thoughts. As you see, hear, or feel thoughts coming into your consciousness, shut them down and inhibit your thoughts again.

Don’t worry about how long you can inhibit your thoughts. The person who can, for whatever reasons, inhibit their thoughts for a minute is no better than the person who can only do it for a second or two. It just doesn’t matter!

Do your best with what he exercise is really about: noticing those thoughts that come and then stopping them.

That’s it for this week. Stick with the exercises and remember that they are all building toward something.

Until next week, please get for yourself the best of everything…

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The Exercise in Week One of “The Master Key System” Explained

As we explore the exercise for Week One of The Master Key System, this marks the first in what will be a series for the next twenty-four weeks as we explore and explain each and every exercise in the book. While in the previous “cycle” we explicated thoroughly the body of the book with only glances at the exercises, for this cycle we will focus solely on the exercises.

As you may know, I’ve often referred to the exercises in The Master Key System as the “meat and potatoes” of the book. Friedrich Nietzsche once remarked that all books could be reduced to one paragraph without losing any meaning. While I think that might be tough with The Master Key System, I’ve opined that it could be reduced to maybe five or six pages.

That’s because the ideas in the book are presented in many ways. You have the various “laws” (attraction, love, growth), the concepts of the “world without” and the “world within,” the ideas of “cause and effect,” and other such notions — and each is presented in different forms throughout the work.

The real power of the book resides in the exercises. As Haanel often writes, it is “in the application alone that the value consists.” By that he means that we should practice the exercises.

Or, as I often say, it’s not good enough to read the book and know the information, one must truly understand the material in order to experience the wonderful effects of this philosophy.

So, for those reasons, for the next twenty-four weeks we will explore, explain, and make clear each and every exercise that Haanel gave us in The Master Key System. I am highly confident that you will benefit greatly from these teleseminars. If what I receive in my email is any indication, the vast amount of questions I receive all revolve around how to master an exercise. So, I hope that I help a lot of people — including you.

To obtain the full benefit from these articles, teleseminars and exercises, I highly recommend that you get for yourself Charles F. Haanel’s Complete Master Key Course. You’ll not only get the best version of The Master Key System available anywhere, you’ll get the entire philosophy of success — plus a whole lot more. Have a look; you’ll be glad that you did.

The Exercise

44. Now make the application: Select a room where you can be alone and undisturbed. Sit erect, comfortably, but do not lounge. Let your thoughts roam where they will but be perfectly still for fifteen minutes to half an hour. Continue this for three or four days or for a week until you secure full control of your physical being.

45. Many will find this extremely difficult; others will conquer with ease, but it is absolutely essential to secure complete control of the body before you are ready to progress. Next week you will receive instructions for the next step. In the meantime, you must have mastered this one.

The Exercise Explained

The first exercise that Haanel gives us and that we encounter is a seemingly easy one. It’s one not to be taken lightly, though. As you’ll see as we progress through the exercises week by week, each new exercise builds upon the one prior to it. In other words, by the time we reach Week Twenty-four, we will see a cumulative effect with the exercises.

So, take each exercise seriously — and do master them as best you can, especially with the information you garner from these teleseminars and articles.

For Week One, Haanel instructs us to sit comfortably and be “perfectly still” for fifteen minutes to half an hour. What’s the purpose of this? As Haanel wrote, it’s to “secure complete control of the body.”

This is very important. As we progress through the exercises, we’ll be dealing mainly with the mental aspect of ourselves. In order to get to that point, we must first control our body, which may be a distraction from our mental pursuits.

Now, this is a bit of a difference in thought from what we will come to know of Haanel’s philosophy. You see, Haanel — and The Master Key System as well as the entire philosophy — is about cause and effect: our mental is the cause and the world around us is the effect, thus we must work with the cause (our mind) should we want to remedy the effect.

With this exercise, though, we are seemingly working in reverse. Instead of working on our mind to keep our body still, we are keeping our body still in order to learn to control ourselves as we aim to quell (or gain control over) those subconscious yearnings of our mind to move or fidget. It’s a strange juxtaposition — and the only time we’ll see something like this in all of Haanel’s philosophy.

This exercise is the base-point. With every exercise in the book, we will always begin here. Even when we reach Week Twenty-four, you’ll find that to effectively do the exercise, you will first keep yourself still. Look at this exercise as the basic move, like the “box step” in dancing.

The Benefits of This Exercise

I have found that while the exercises in The Master Key System aim toward an overall goal (those being what you should be learning as you explore the book, which I listed in our very first teleseminar), each exercise has its own tangible benefits that will help you in real life.

For this first exercise, the major (and obvious) benefit is that you will gain self-control over your body. No more will you fidget or appear to others to be a “mess” with bouncing knees and twirling your hair. Instead, you will be the picture of physical composure. Calmness. You’ll be “cool.”

Think of how that will benefit you. Instead of being the “nervous wreck” in, say, a job interview, you’ll display an outward calmness that most people do not have. You won’t be tapping your pen or playing with your nails. You’ll be composed. While at this point you may be roiling internally, you will give the appearance of placidity. And that means a lot.

Another benefit that you’ll find is that when you master gaining control of yourself and keeping still, you’ll find it easier to calm down should you get heated or riled or anxious. Our physical body does in some ways control our mental aspect. Forcing yourself to smile when you’re sad or angry often times does bring about a true happiness. At the very least, it improves your mood. Thus, learning to keep yourself still will assuage your nerves should you be beset by them.

Tips for the Best Practice of Week One’s Exercise

For such a seemingly easy exercise, I’ve received countless emails asking questions about it. Here are some tips that may answer questions you may be asking yourself.

First, while you don’t need a “perfect” room or location, try to find a place that provides as much solitude as possible. I know that’s not possible for some people. Thus, sometimes you have to make-do with what you have or what you can find.

Technically, this exercise can be practiced just about anywhere. Sitting in a waiting room, on a bus, at work, on a plane. Anywhere you have a place to sit and no one is bothering you. It is best, though, if you have a place where you can return to regularly, especially as we get into the later exercises. You want the place to be comfortable to you. So, if you have a little office space for yourself, that would be best. If not, as noted, please make-do with what you have at your disposal.

This exercise (and all the following ones) are made to be done while you’re sitting! Please don’t make the mistake of lying in bed or on a couch. Sit as Haanel describes. The goal is not to fall asleep! At the same time, you’re not to sit rigidly erect. Sit as you would if you were driving a car: back straight as if it were supported by a lumbar support and your feet firmly on the floor.

You will close your eyes as you practice this exercise. (Hence, the no lying in bed!) This will prevent you from blinking.

Major movements are to be avoided or refused! These include scratching your nose, shifting your weight, unclasping your hands. Anything like that.

Minor, uncontrollable movements are OK: breathing, small tics, perhaps a nose twitch. Please don’t condemn yourself because your chest is moving with your breathing. It’s OK.

Lastly, I have found that keeping my hands palm-down on my thighs as I sit is best. I have found that intertwining my fingers leads to them eventually falling asleep and then producing some pain. It’s best just to keep your hands on your thighs. Believe me, you’ll thank me later.

At this point I’d just like to say to you to not over-think this exercise (or any of the exercises, for that matter). They are all pretty straight forward.

I’d like to note one significant thing: These exercises aren’t magical. They’re not meditation. You won’t see God or transmute lead into gold if you perfect them just right. Approach them as you did math homework problems that you had in grammar school. You did them so that you could increase your skill in math. Well, we’re doing these exercises to increase our skills in thinking, in focusing, in cutting through the noise of the world. Approach them with that in mind and you’ll see true and impressive results.

Until next week when we probe the depths of the exercise from Week Two of The Master Key System. Be well and get for yourself the best of everything!

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A Blast from the Past: Amber Grady Interviews Tony Michalski

It’s been far too long since I hosted a Master Key Coaching Teleseminar. For that, I apologise.

Things have been busy here at Kallisti Publishing. We will be releasing a new book. We’re in the process of getting the word out about Claire McGee’s incredible book I Believe Therefore I Am. Add in there the weird weather and acts of God that we have been experiencing in our area.

There just hasn’t been time.

We will return soon! In two weeks.

In the meantime, please enjoy this interview from many years ago. Amber Grady graciously interviewed me for her show “Jewels for the Journey.” We discussed Mr. Haanel, The Master Key System, and the philosophy of success. It’s short, but I think that you’ll get a few points from it.

That’s all for now. I’ll “see” you in a week or two!

As usual, I wish you and yours the best of everything!

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How to Permanently Let Go of Self-Destructive Beliefs and Habits with Special Guest Claire McGee

We once again welcome back to this our 44th Teleseminar the vivacious Claire McGee, author of the incredible book I Believe Therefore I Am. What we have is nothing short of incredible — or seemingly miraculous.

On this call, Claire and I discussed an amazing technique for permanently letting go of self-destructive and limiting beliefs and habits.

You’re going to be stunned at how simple it can be — no matter what the belief or habit is! You’re also going to be impressed by how easily you can “let go” of your emotional and experiential “baggage,” that stuff that is holding you from being the person you want to be.

This is an amazing call with an incredible technique that I urge all of you to practice. I have used the techniques discussed here with my Coaching clients and the results have been nothing short of miraculous. Even in my own life, I have had awesome experiences merely from letting go of certain thoughts and beliefs. I am highly confident that you will, too.

Let Me Re-Introduce You to Claire McGee

Claire McGee is the author of I Believe Therefore I AmClaire McGee, M.Msc is a highly professional and uniquely qualified motivational teacher whose goal is to empower people with the realization that they are in control of their destiny and have the very real and very valid ability to achieve their goals.

Claire knows this because she lived it.

In early 2004, Claire was on her way to a successful corporate career. Her future looked bright. Happily married with two small children, a new home, and a rewarding career, she was well on her way to achieving all of her dreams.

These dreams were to deteriorate rapidly when she was diagnosed with Congenital Fiber Type Disproportion Myopathy, a very painful and debilitating muscle disorder.

Claire rejected the reality of barely surviving and replaced it with a true belief in her ability to achieve all she had set out to do. It was during this time that Claire delved into the process of the mind and began to recognize all the negative thoughts and habits she had been living with on a daily basis.

This newfound understanding of the principles for being inwardly aware and outwardly successful lead Claire down a path of self discovery which, in turn, positively influenced the people around her. She speaks differently, acts differently, and has built a passion for helping others to understand the power of the mind.

The “Baggage” We Carry with Us

We all have “baggage.” Yes, that’s one of those pop-psych terms that gets thrown around probably too much. Yet it’s true that we have it and it is true that it adversely affects each and every one of us.

That baggage can be just about anything that we’ve done or experienced.

  • picked on in school
  • bad relationships
  • abuse
  • past behavior when you were under the influence of drugs or alcohol
  • divorce
  • the loss of a loved one
  • failures

That list can continue indefinitely.

These experiences that you’ve had affect you to this day.

How?

They play on your mind in such a way that they affect your emotions, which in turn dictate the experiences you have in your life.

Thus, these negative experiences lead to negative emotions that lead to … Well, you get the idea.

Unfortunately, you also get the results. It’s a cycle that you see in your life, right?

Most of all, this baggage develops within each and every one of us as negative beliefs and habits. They cause us to not be the person we want to be. They stifle us. They cause us to act in ways that we do not want to act. They mute our voices and shutter our lights.

They must be jettisoned from us.

Here is how…

Claire McGee’s “Catch & Release” Technique

You can overcome these experiences by mastering Claire McGee’s “Catch & Release” technique. When you do, you will finally be able to

  • let go of your past,
  • remove doubt and insecurity from your mind,
  • enjoy being impressed with all that is positive,
  • release self-destructive beliefs,
  • form a new and self-empowering reality.

Are you ready to let go of the things that have been hurting you and holding you back and experience the change for which you have been looking?

With your emotions dictating the results you experience, it is wise to remove all seemingly negative experiences you are stubbornly holding onto from your past and replace them with the positive aspects that came from the experiences.

By doing this, you alter your perspective, leaving you impressed with all that is positive. This new perspective causes you to naturally release the self-destructive beliefs you have created and you thus begin to form a new and self-empowering reality.

Take a piece of paper and create a page under the heading “Catch and Release.”

Make headings with the titles

  • “What was the circumstance?,”
  • “How does it make me feel?,”
  • and “What positive things came from the experience?”

Now, ask yourself the questions and then answer them.

Begin to look within yourself and be completely honest with yourself. Allow the words and emotions to flow as you write your answers. Continue this line of thinking until such time as all is said and acknowledged. When you’re finished, put the paper or journal down and walk away for a while. When you’re ready, go back to it and read what you wrote. You may be amazed at what your mind came up with as to the positive things that came from the experience.

Doing this allows your mind to accept this new perspective because it came from you.

Now, this exercise may be difficult as you weed out all of your hurts and discomforts. The end result is extremely rewarding and self-empowering as the goal of this exercise is to address the cause and change your perspective.

Claire provides guidance to how to properly do this on the Teleseminar. So please listen to it.

“We Are Today the Result of Our Past Thinking”

Charles F. Haanel wrote in “Week Three” of The Master Key System that we are “today the result of our past thinking, and we shall be what we are thinking today.”

If you allow your “baggage” to burden you — to plague your mind, as it were — then you will continue to get what you have always received.

Another author, MiMi Paris, wrote in her book Size Matters! that “If you trip once, it is an accident. If you trip repeatedly, you are clumsy.” By using the word “clumsy,” Ms. Paris means that there is something within you — your negative, self-destructive thoughts — that keeps you doing the same things over and over again.

If that’s the case, then you get rid of those things.

To get rid of those things, you use Claire McGee’s “Catch & Release” technique.

You can discover more about Claire and this amazing technique in her book I Believe Therefore I Am and at her new web site, www.CoachingWithClaire.com.

Check them out. You’ll be glad that you did.

Until next time, my friend, please get for yourself the best of everything.

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Interview with Al Walker, Author of The Sheep Thief – July 18, 2011 – The Master Key Coaching Teleseminars

Al Walker is President of Al Walker and Associates, Inc., located in Chapin, South Carolina. The firm is dedicated to helping businesses and individuals solve problems within their organizations through professional speaking, training and consulting services.

Al is a great guy. He’s funny, down-to-Earth, and inspiring. His infectious laugh and humor coupled with his South Carolina accent made me and everyone who listened feel comfortable. If we were seated across from each other, you would have seen me sitting in that leaning forward position that many books on body language indicate is the body language for rapt attention.

We had the most enjoyable conversation with Al about his life, his work, and his incredible book, The Sheep Thief. You’re going to love this book.

He’s Not Heavy, He’s Al Walker!

Al Walker. Speaker. Trainer. Author. Funny guy. Proud South Carolinian. Margaret's husband.

So, who exactly is this guy, this Al Walker?

Well, that would be a lot for me to type. Please allow me to be lazy and just copy and paste from his official bio. (Thanks!)

Al earned a business degree from the University of South Carolina in 1969. He joined a residential building and development firm, and within two years as head of sales and marketing, the firm was the highest dollar volume residential builder in South Carolina.

During that time, Al attended a Dale Carnegie course and decided his future was in training and developing people. Since starting his own company in 1981, Al and his instructors have conducted over 2000 training sessions in the United States, Europe, Canada, Mexico and the Caribbean. His international clients include Michelin, Coca-Cola, Kelloggs, Wal-Mart, Westinghouse, and many other Fortune 500 clients, and many National, Regional and State Associations.

Al is past president of the National Speakers Association and has served as Chairman of the NSA Foundation Board of Trustees. He has earned the designation of Certified Speaking Professional and has been inducted into the prestigious Council of Peers Award for Excellence Speakers Hall of Fame.

In addition to being active in his church, Al is Immediate Past Chairman of the Board of Harvest Hope which provides food for over 400 agencies in his home state. He also serves on the Board of Trustees of Camden Military Academy.

However, Al feels his most significant accomplishments in life are being married to his wife Margaret, having two wonderful daughters and son-in laws, having three amazing grandchildren, and being blessed to work with an incredible staff of dedicated professionals.

See? That’s a lot!

Let’s add to that that Al has worked with so many companies and organizations, the list looks like the stock page in a newspaper. Not only that: Al has been in business with his company for thirty (that’s three-oh) years!

Suffice it to say that Al Walker is a pretty impressive guy.

You would have known that, though, if you read his book, The Sheep Thief.

Good Night, Ralph. Good Night, Sam.

I didn’t think I would like Al’s book The Sheep Thief. Perhaps it was the mood I was in. Maybe it was the day of the week. I don’t know. I just know that when I first picked it up to read it, I wasn’t expecting much.

Then I got into it. Boy, was I wrong! The Sheep Thief is a phenomenal book — and one that I will read again and refer to often. You will, too!

Here’s a quick summary of it.

Several hundred years ago in a quaint village in Italy, two young men were caught stealing sheep. They were immediately taken to trial before the town judge, found guilty and, there in front of their fellow villagers, were given their sentence. It was a cruel, harsh and painful sentence that would mark them for life.

One of these men died a lonely, embarrassed and embittered old man who was far away from home, penniless and without any friends, while the other overcame his past to become the wealthiest, most successful man in the region. Everyone knew his name and honored him. He became the patriarch. There was not one human being who had not been touched by him in some way.

And that’s just the beginning, which is the parable of the “Sheep Thief.” The book has a greater story that involves a character named Harvey Cole, a person perhaps a lot like you and me, and his mentor, Mr. Taylor.

Mr. Taylor instructs Harvey in the philosophy of success using this parable as his base. Over the course of a couple of weeks, Mr. Taylor reveals to Harvey the thirty-one steps of true happiness and success.

Be just like Al Walker! Thinking Big and Living Large.

It’s an amazing journey for Harvey — and for us, the readers. Every page and every step is either an illumination or a reminder of what it takes to be truly happy and successful. Yes, the “usual suspects” are there. The way Al through Mr. Taylor explains them, though, makes them seem as if we’re reading them for the first time or with new eyes.

The Sheep Thief came to me at the right time — right when I needed it. I know that when you read it, you’ll see what I mean. Sometimes (many times? too many times?) we find ourselves spinning our wheels, trying this and that and not getting anywhere and feeling bad about it. More often than not, what we need is not something new, rather a reminder of what the root ideas of happiness and success are, the main causes and prime movers.

Al gives us that — and more! — to us in The Sheep Thief. You’ll dig it.

Take the First Step

I highly recommend Al Walker’s The Sheep Thief. It’s awesome in its simplicity and captivating in its style.

Most of all, it’s one of those books that makes you feel good. Please take note that that “good” is italicized because that’s the kind of good you’ll feel. That alive-feeling kind of good. That it-feels-good-to-be-alive kind of good feeling. You know what I mean.

Al’s personality comes through in his book. You’ll feel that when you listen to the interview that we did her and when you read his book.

So, check it out The Sheep Thief and take the first step on the stairway to true happiness and success.

You’ll be glad that you did.

Until next time, my friends, please get for yourself the best of everything.

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